Make couples find themselves in this dilemma when it comes to relationships. You love a person and are finally ready to settle with them. You take them to meet your family only to find that they do not approve for the relationship. Here is where you are torn between the love for your family and the need to be with your partner.
Acknowledging their Concerns
Your family always has the best interests of you at heart. No parents will wish that their kids settle with a person who will not suit their kid. Acknowledge their concerns and ask them why they do not approve of your partner. There might be something that you might have missed or overlooked in your blindness for love.
Be open - minded and do not lose your cool in front of them. Finally the decision is for you to make. See if they are any valid reasons for your family to voice their concerns. Family is not always right. You need to stand your ground sometimes and justify your reasons for having a relationship with your partner. This can be done without creating a scene and upsetting the people you love the most.
Allow them the chance to meet your partner so that they see for themselves that is truly a genuine person. You can even talk it out with your partner if there is a cause of concern in the relationship and work on improving it.
Approaching Family in a Polite Way
If you want your family to really change their outlook towards your partner, you need to convince them that your partner is the right choice for you. Make them understand that your partner is the person with whom you want to spend your life with.
They might be stubborn and might try emotional blackmail with you, but you need to be firm. When they see that you are serious about the relationship, they might back down and eventually approve of your partner.
Bear in mind not to take any drastic steps such as running away or breaking all ties with your family. You do not want to hurt their feelings. It might take some time, but they will come around because their love for you might make them oversee these minor differences.
Changing Their Opinion
Plan as much encounters that you can and try to involve your partner in your family gatherings. Understand the reason why they have formed a negative opinion about your partner. Opinions can be formed based out of financial position, culture differences or personal.
If it is due to financial or cultural differences, then you really need to work hard at convincing your family that money is not the main motive for your partner to get into a relationship with you. You need to explain to them they your partner truly loves and respects you and that it more important that your family understands and approves of the relationship. Let them see the love for both your partner and them. Ultimately the choice is yours on whom will you support.
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