After divorce or separation, being a single dad, you may want to start dating and move on with your life. However, it is not as easy as it sounds. Although, you have been with a woman for several years, but getting to know a new person and being out of your cocoon can be a challenging task. There are a few things that you need to avoid while making that first move. Let us discuss some of those.
Leave all the expectations at home
You should never go to a blind date with a mind full of expectations. Instead go with an open mind free to accept anything. Take the date as fun activity and not a responsibility. If you are not going to like a person, you can change your date anytime and it's not a big deal.
However, try to keep one thing in mind, the person who has arranged this date for both of you might have thought over it. Try to look at your date from their point of you. It is better to ask your friends about what they liked most in her beforehand.
Feel sexy and attractive
Yes, it is actually true. If you feel attractive yourself, you have better chances of survival in a blind date. Dress to your best and look appealing. This would not only impress her, but will also boost your confidence.
Don't beat around the bush. Try to include interesting topics in your conversation. Show her the humorous side of yours. Be positive as it will have a direct effect on how you are going to enjoy a date. Your monotonous behaviour will not interest her. You can try something new and funny to make the whole setup interesting.
Find a common topic to discuss
This is one of the biggest problems that men face during a blind date. People often feel confused as to what to ask or talk about in such a set up. Well, here are some questions you can ask your girl on a blind date.
- How did you agree to come for a blind-date?
- Do you have any special hobby?
- What is the most beautiful or exotic place you have ever been to?
- Whom did you like as a kid?
- Who is your idol now?
- What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
You can find any such questions related to her job, family or childhood to beat the awkwardness.
Don't be sexual
Just because it is a blind date, it does not mean you will treat the girl lightly or disrespectfully. Never go with an expectation that the night will end with sex. Don't think that blind date is a gateway to bed. Often mutual friends set up these dates because they think you are perfect for each other.
People often make the mistake of acting fake during a blind date, just to impress a girl. The girl will eventually know who you are at the end of the day. So, be who you are. Let her like you and not the person you are faking. Be humble, elegant and polite, but first be “you”.
You can easily make your blind date a success story with these tips.
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